Coming soon to iOS

The friend-finding app
for people who do things.

Not who you say you are. What you actually did. Cogniscape matches you with people based on the books you finished, the classes you took, and the runs you ran. No bios. No browsing. Receipts.

You're on the list. We'll email you when it opens.

iOS first. We'll email you when it opens.

The problem

"Tell me about yourself."
Most of us answer with a job title. Thenโ€ฆ nothing.

Your real life is already on the record. It's just scattered across apps that never talk to each other, and none of them are trying to find you a friend.

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Goodreads

knows you finished 14 books this year and abandoned 3.

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Strava

knows you actually run. Slowly. Every Tuesday.

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Your camera roll

knows you tried pottery and made one lopsided bowl.

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Steam

knows about the 400 hours in Stardew Valley.

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Letterboxd

knows you watched every Miyazaki film, in order, in one month.

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Duolingo

knows about the 212-day Italian streak and zero Italian conversations.

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ClassPass

knows you tried aerial yoga once and went back for boxing nine times.

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Spotify

knows you played one album 300 times in March and nothing else.

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AllTrails

knows you did 11 hikes this year, none longer than six miles.

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Chess.com

knows you're rated 900 after 2,000 games and still playing.

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Your calendar

knows about Tuesday-night choir, every week since 2023.

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Ravelry

knows you started three sweaters and finished one.

What did we miss?

Where do your receipts live? A fitness tracker, a library card, a game, a club. Tell us and we'll add it.

Remember Blippy? In 2010 it broadcast your credit-card purchases as a status feed. What you buy turned out to be a thin signal. How you spend your time is the thick one. Cogniscape is Blippy for time.

What friend apps ask for
  • "Love hiking!" Went once. In 2019.
  • "Avid reader ๐Ÿ“š" Three books this year. All unfinished.
  • "Always up for an adventure" Has never once been up for an adventure.
What Cogniscape asks for
  • Did it: Wheel-throwing 101 at CPAC "Made a lopsided bowl. I love it."
  • Doing it: Piranesi, chapter 12 "This book is wrecking me."
  • Let it go: Learning guitar "Four years of not practicing. I'm free."

Aspirations are easy. Receipts are hard. So we match on receipts.

How it works

Claim it. Get matched. Talk. Meet.

Claim what you've actually done

No bio. You log experiences with a status and, if you want, a receipt (a photo, a Goodreads import, a Strava run) and a one-line reflection. The reflection is where the conversation starters live.

Did itDoing itWant toLet it go

We match you and tell you why

There is nothing to browse and no photos to judge. You get one match at a time with a reason: something you share, or something one of you did that the other wants to try. Accept or pass.

Talk, and learn more as you go

Every match starts with a seeded prompt from your overlap. The more you talk, the more of each other's story you see. Ghost, and you learn nothing.

Meet up for real, and the full story unlocks

Full profiles open only when you both check in at the same place. Not before. The profile confirms what you already felt instead of replacing it.

A match looks like this

No photo. No name yet.
Just the reason.

Most apps show you a face and ask you to guess. We show you the overlap and let the face come later, after you've actually talked. It's a little uncomfortable. That's on purpose.

The match on the right is an example. The reasons are the kind the app writes.

9:41Your matchโ—โ—โ—
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Why you two

You both finished Piranesi this year. They want to try wheel-throwing. You just did.

You're both in Denver. They let go of learning guitar last spring. Same as you.

Opener, if you want itWhich chapter of Piranesi broke you?
Who it's for

"Doer" isn't code for impressive hobbies. The bar is that you actually do it, versus all talk. Rewatching Gilmore Girls for the fourth time counts. So does banana bread number 47.

Beat Diablo for the 20th time Finished one book this year, loved it Runs 12-minute miles, every week Took one pottery class, kept the bowl 400 hours in Stardew Valley Gave up guitar and feels great about it Cooks the same four recipes well
Questions

The ones we get most

Is this a dating app?

No. It's for finding friends to do things with. Some of those friendships will turn into something else because that's how life works, but nothing in the product is built around it. No swiping, no photos first, no "looking for."

What counts as a receipt?

Anything that shows you did the thing. A photo from the class. A finished book on Goodreads. A run on Strava. A screenshot of your Steam hours. Receipts are optional, but matches with receipts are weighted higher, and people can tell.

Can I see other people's profiles?

Not by browsing. You see matches one at a time with the reason you were matched. More of their story opens up as you talk, and the full profile unlocks when you've met in person.

Why hide profiles until we meet?

Because the profile is for you first. It's the story of what you've done and who you're becoming, written for you, not optimized for strangers. When someone finally reads it, you feel seen instead of shopped.

What if I'm not interesting?

Everyone who worries about this is interesting. The people who aren't are the ones who've never thought to ask. Log what you actually did this week. That's the whole bar.

Can I use it today?

Not yet. iOS first, cities one at a time. Join the waitlist and we'll tell you when yours opens.

The best answer to "tell me about yourself" is what you did this week.

Join the waitlist. We'll match you with someone whose life rhymes with yours.

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